Not just the kids, but the adoptive parents also ask themselves questions: doubting their acceptance. A good question that comes to mind is whether or not; they can create a bound with the child. According to an adoption Corporation called "PACT", no, they cannot bond with the adopted child. They feel, "Bounding is a one-way process that begins in the birth mother during pregnancy and continues through the first few days of life." (1-2) It is instinctive so the bond can never be achieved, but hope lies in "attaching". When you create an attachment between your child and you, it allows for the child to flourish. "Attachment is a two-way reciprocal process between parents and their children. (1-2) This process of attachment says a lot to a child. It is more than a friendship bond by allowing the child to put all of its trust within you. PACT wants us to know that, "It starts with a promise, a promise from parents to child that says, You count, and you can always rely on me." (1-2)......
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